How to Win an I Love You More Argument

How do you possibly win an "I love you more" argument? It turns out that there are a ton of ways—you just have to get creative! Here, we'll share some sweet and sassy comebacks that will make your SO admit defeat. Read on to come out on top the next time you hear "I love you more."

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[Edit]“I love you the most. 😎”

1. Dazzle them with a word that's even better than "more." After you two have volleyed "I love you more's" back and forth like a ping pong match, throw them a curve ball. Pull out the word "most" and they won't know what hit them.^[1]
   
   • “I have the ultimate level of love for you! 🥳”
   • “My love for you is unparalleled. 🤓”
   • “I love you more than what’s humanly possible. 🧙🏼‍♀️”
   • "I don't know how it's possible to love someone more than all the universe in all the skies"^[2]

[Edit]“I think about you day and night!"

1. Say you're totally smitten to be 100% victorious. Tell them that there's no way they can love you more since they're always on your mind. Your devotion will make them melt.
   
   • “Even after all this time, I’m absolutely obsessed with you!”
   • “You’re on my mind 24/7! I totally adore you.”
   • “I’m head-over-heels for you every second of the day.”

[Edit]“I love you to the 🌕 and back."

1. Declare your love's out of this world to win your silly fight. Tell them that there's nothing on Earth that can compare to how you feel about them. You'll make them swoon with your adoring words.
   
   • “You’re my moon and stars! 🤩”
   • “You’re the ☀️ in my life.”
   • ”My love for you is out of this world. 🪐”

[Edit]“You’re going to be my #1 for an eternity. ✨"

1. Tell them you'll always be their biggest fan to win them over. Bring up words like "eternity," "forever," or "endless." It'll be unmistakable that you'll always be there for your SO.
   
   • “I place you above everything else! 💖”
   • “I worship you! You always come first.”
   • “Your happiness is my biggest priority, babe!”

[Edit]“If I had to choose the best part of my life, it’d be you! 😘”

1. Say they're a gift so they'll melt and admit defeat. Say that just their presence is the highlight of their life. Express a ton of gratitude and they'll feel truly appreciated.^[3]
   
   • “You are my greatest joy.”
   • “When I reflect on what I’m grateful for, I think of you right away.”
   • “No matter what I go through, you make my life worthwhile.”

[Edit]“I've got proof I love you more. I bought you a PS5!”

1. Be over-the-top and give them a gift to come out on top in your "fight." This is a great call for a special milestone, like their birthday or an anniversary. Use a thoughtful gift as evidence of how much you adore them.^[4]
   
   • “It’s obvious I love you more! Just check out the package on your doorstep. 📦”
   • “I think these concert tickets show I love you more. 🎫”
   • “I blow your love out of the park! I booked us a trip to Maui! 🌴”

[Edit]“All the dictionaries in the world wouldn’t have enough words to describe my love! 📚”

1. If you're left speechless, say words just can't express all your love. Let them know that there's no way you could tell them how much you love them, even if you had all the phrases for "love" at your fingertips. If you're with each other in person, give your SO a hug to really seal the deal.^[5]
   
   • “I’d run out of breath if I listed all the ways I love you. 😘”
   • “It’d take more than a lifetime to share everything I love about you.”
   • “It’s impossible to find the words to express my love! 🤯”

[Edit]“A trillion poems couldn't capture how much I love you.”

1. Feel free to exaggerate in the argument so you can score an easy win. Use impressive numbers like "one hundred," "a million," or a "thousand" to express that you just can't quantify all your love.^[6]
   
   • “You deserve more than a thousand dates! You’re incredible!”
   • “A million gifts wouldn’t be enough to show my devotion to you! 🎁”
   • “I adore you so much! A billion “I love you’s” can’t even scratch the surface!”

[Edit]“Hey! This isn’t a competition. But if it were one—I’d win. 😇”

1. Get really sassy and tease that you'll always win in this situation. Remind them that it's not a contest so they think they're off the hook. Then, as your finishing move, declare that you'll always be the victor in an "I love you more" argument.
   
   • “It’s not fair to draw comparisons. 😉 I’d beat you, anyway.”
   • “Sorry to say, but you’d always be outmatched, babe. 💪 💓”
   • “Let’s not argue about this. 😊 I’ll always be the one to love you more!”

[Edit]"I know. 💁"

1. End the argument by soaking up your SO's love. Get a little cocky and say you're already totally aware that they adore you. It's a great way to stop them in their tracks and make them laugh.
   
   • "Tell me something I don't know. 😝"
   • "Okay! Sounds good to me."
   • "How could you not? 🤷🏾"

[Edit]"Let’s just agree that we love each other equally."

1. You're not really arguing, but calling a "truce" is still pretty cute. Remind them that love doesn't have to be a battlefield. Focus on what really matters—your feelings for each other—and celebrate that you're both completely in love.^[7]
   
   • "Why don't we call it even? We're both 100% in love. 💖"^[8]
   • "I don't want to argue. 😝 Let's just call a truce."
   • "I think we should call it a day and just cuddle."

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[Edit]Quick Summary

1. ↑ [v161147_b01]. 26 October 2022.
2. ↑ [v161147_b01]. 26 October 2022.
3. ↑ https://positivepsychology.com/gratitude-appreciation/
4. ↑ https://hbr.org/2020/12/why-am-i-so-obsessed-with-giving-people-gifts
5. ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-asymmetric-brain/202206/10-things-make-hug-great
6. ↑ https://positivepsychology.com/gratitude-messages-letters-lists/
7. ↑ [v161147_b01]. 26 October 2022.
8. ↑ [v161147_b01]. 26 October 2022.

How to Enneagram Test

The Enneagram Test: a quiz that includes a kaleidoscope of 9 different personalities and worldviews—including our greatest goals and deepest fears. Sounds pretty neat, right?

We think so, too. In fact, we’ve made our own shorthand version of the test to help you get a glimpse of your possible Enneagram Type. If you’re ready to dive into all the possibilities, hit “Start Quiz.”

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1. If your best friend could describe you in 1 word, what would it be?

1. Empathetic.
2. Individualistic.
3. Intellectual.
4. I'm not sure.

2. You’re getting ready for a job interview. What strength do you think you’d have that might get you the job?

1. Making a great impression with my natural charisma.
2. Being super prepared for the interviewer’s questions.
3. Acting confident and assertive throughout the interview.
4. I'm not sure.

3. You’re planning a beach trip with your friends. Which statement sounds most like you?

1. I'm the friend who makes sure all our plans go smoothly (because I hate when things go awry).
2. I'm just focused on soaking in as many amazing sites, sounds, and fun times as possible.
3. To me, it’s important to go with the flow of what the group wants.
4. I’m not sure.

4. Which fear do you find most relatable?

1. I’m scared of not knowing who I am.
2. I’m scared of being abandoned.
3. I have a perpetual case of FOMO (Fear Of Missing Out) for all the lives I’m not living.
4. I'm not sure.

5. Which compliment would absolutely make your day?

1. “I appreciate how much work you put into getting the details just right.”
2. “I so admire how willing you are to put others first.”
3. “I think you’re really going places in life.”
4. I’m not sure.

6. Imagine that you could redo any moment in your life. What would you do?

1. I would sign up for a class/club about a topic that really interests me.
2. I would stand up to a teacher or boss who was rude to me.
3. I would de-escalate a big fight between my friends or loved ones.
4. I'm not sure.

7. You’re planning a surprise birthday bash for your friend. How do you prepare?

1. I iron out every last detail at least 2 months in advance.
2. I start planning things a few weeks before.
3. I start preparing the week before their birthday.
4. I’m not sure.

8. Your friend is struggling with a really tough break-up. How do you support them?

1. I head over to their place immediately (or spend hours on the phone with them if they live far away).
2. I shoot them a long, sweet text offering my support and telling them how much I love them.
3. I’ll say something nice the next time I happen to see them.
4. I’m not sure.

9. You just scored an 85% on a big test. How are you feeling?

1. Unhappy. I won’t be satisfied until I get the highest grade in my class!
2. Satisfied. It’s not my best performance, but not my worst.
3. I don't care. I passed—that’s all that I care about.
4. I'm not sure.

10. Are you a creative person at heart?

1. Absolutely! I feel like I’m super creative.
2. Kind of? I’m creative sometimes, at least.
3. Not especially—I wouldn’t use that word to describe myself.
4. I’m not sure.

11. Do you prefer to work by yourself, or do you work better in a group?

1. By myself, definitely.
2. I like working by myself, but I’m fine in a group setting, too.
3. In a group, 100%.
4. I'm not sure.

12. You have a friend you’re losing touch with. What’s your next move?

1. I’m going to do everything I can to get in touch and rebuild the relationship. I’m loyal to a fault.
2. I’ll send a couple of messages to try and reconnect.
3. I’ll let the friendship fade—it probably wasn’t meant to be, anyway.
4. I'm not sure.

13. When you visit a new city, what’s your top priority?

1. Experiencing as many new things as I possibly can.
2. Seeing a few sights while also getting some downtime.
3. Staying put and having a relaxing time.
4. I’m not sure.

14. Do you consider yourself more of a leader or a follower?

1. A leader, definitely. I’m comfortable taking charge.
2. I’m pretty flexible, but I prefer to be in a leadership position.
3. A follower—I don’t like taking the lead.
4. I’m not sure.

15. You’re dealing with a frustrating problem at school or work. What’s your default reaction?

1. I ignore it (or pretend it isn’t as bad as it actually is).
2. I make a plan to address the problem in the (distant) future.
3. I plan to face the problem head-on.
4. I'm not sure.

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[Edit]All About the Enneagram Test

What is the Enneagram Test?
The Enneagram Test is an in-depth personality questionnaire that has both spiritual and psychological influences. The American Journal of Psychiatry specifically defines the Enneagram system as “a personality theory describing 9 strategies by which the psyche develops a worldview and relates to self and others.” In other words, the Enneagram outlines 9 different core philosophies and mindsets that all people develop from a young age, and how each philosophy influences the way a person interacts and connects to the world around them.
The word “Enneagram” is actually Greek in origin: “Ennea” means “nine,” and refers to the 9 Types encompassed in the system, while “gram” means “drawing,” and refers to the iconic 9-pointed visual design the Enneagram Test is known for.

The 9 Enneagram Types

• Type 1 - The Perfectionist: Type 1s set the bar really high for themselves, and are known for being responsible and reliable.
  
• Type 2 - The Giver: Type 2s tend to put others first, and are known for their empathy and kindness.
  
• Type 3 - The Performer: Type 3s are go-getters, and are known for their hard-working spirit and sense of drive.
  
• Type 4 - The Romantic: Type 4s are soul-searching creatives who are known for their sense of passion and individuality.
  
• Type 5 - The Observer: Type 5s are private intellectuals who are known for their great analytical skills and smarts.
  
• Type 6 - The Skeptic: Type 6s are loyal friends who are known for their perceptive skill set and ability to plan ahead.
  
• Type 7 - The Enthusiast: Type 7s are adventurous and fun-loving communicators who are known for their upbeat perspective on life.
  
• Type 8 - The Protector: Type 8s are capable leaders who are known for speaking their minds and carving their own paths in life.
  
• Type 9 - The Mediator: Type 9s are peace-loving individuals who are known for their harmonious nature and dislike of conflict.
  
  

Body, Heart, & Head Types
The Enneagram divides all 9 Types into 3 categories (or “centers of intelligence”): Body, Heart, and Head. Knowing which category your Type falls into can provide some valuable insights into who you are and how you act.

• Body Types: These Enneagram Types are influenced by an instinct-based mindset that’s rooted in principles like feeling in control and taking constructive steps to solve a problem.
  
  • Body Enneagram Types: Types 8, 9, and 1
    
• Heart Types: These Enneagram Types are influenced by a feeling-based mindset that’s rooted in being successful, feeling connected to others, and meeting the expectations they feel are assigned to them.
  
  • Heart Enneagram Types: Types 2, 3, and 4
    
• Head Types: These Enneagram Types are influenced by a thinking-based mindset that’s rooted in collecting intel, planning ahead, and having multiple backup plans.
  
  • Head Enneagram Types: Types 5, 6, and 7
    
    

What are Enneagram wings?
Think of Enneagram “wings” as a subtype of each main Type; for instance, someone could be a Type 1w2, a Type 3w4, a Type 8w9, and so on. A person’s wing can only be a neighboring number of their main type—say, a Type 6 could be either a 6w5 or a 6w7, but not a 6w1 or a 6w2. Knowing your wing can help you better understand which adjacent Type influences your current worldview, but it’s not an essential to knowing and appreciating your primary Enneagram Type.

• Note: This wikiHow quiz does not include Enneagram wings in the results.

[Edit]Want to learn more?

Want to take a deeper dive into the world of the Enneagram Test and its 9 types? These resources are a great starting point:

• https://www.internationalenneagram.org/about/the-enneagram/
• https://ajp.psychiatryonline.org/doi/full/10.1176/appi.ajp-rj.2020.150301
• https://www.narrativeenneagram.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/04/The-Enneagram-and-the-Nine-Types-Guide-2021.pdf

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How to Have a Glow Up

Having a glow up is an empowering transformation of who you are. This might look like changing your appearance, drinking more water, or achieving your goals. Whatever your glow up means to you, it’s all about becoming the best version of yourself and learning to practice self-care and acceptance! Look after your body inside and out by eating a well-balanced diet, working out regularly, and looking after your skin. Practice being confident and surrounding yourself with positive people to help you feel that glow!

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[Edit]Changing Your Appearance

1. Follow a skincare routine to help your skin glow. Your skin is one of the first things that people notice about you and having glowing skin will really help your transformation shine! Clean your face with water twice a day and use a toner, moisturizer, and exfoliator that is suitable for your skin type. Remember to take off your makeup each night before you go to sleep so that you wake up with fresh and smooth skin.^[1]
   
   • If you have problems or concerns about your skin, visit a dermatologist for professional advice. Getting your skin to glow might be as simple as using a different product or getting more of a specific nutrient!
2. Stand up straight and tall to improve your posture. Your posture can make a huge difference in your appearance! Keep your back straight, your shoulders back, and your arms resting naturally by your sides. When you’re sitting down, keep your back at a right angle to your thighs and try to release any tension to prevent straining your muscles.^[2]
   
   • If you experience any pain or are having trouble maintaining good posture, visit a doctor or a physiotherapist for professional advice.
3. Wear clothes that emphasize your favorite features. Wearing clothes that flaunt your best features will help you to look and feel your best! Maybe you want to wear a color that makes your eyes pop or a pair of boots that draw attention to your long legs? Try out plenty of different clothes and experiment with different outfits to find a style you love. Don’t be afraid to try out statement pieces like a bright blazer, an elegant dress, or some new heels.^[3]
   
   • Choose tighter fitting garments if you want to accentuate your figure.
   • Vertical lines have a slimming effect while horizontal lines accentuate curves.
   • Ultimately, wear clothes that make you feel happy and confident!
4. Experiment with makeup to see if you like how it makes you look. Whether makeup is totally foreign to you or you want to try out a new product, experimenting with makeup can make a huge difference to your appearance. There are plenty of free makeup tutorials available online, so use these to your advantage to try out different looks and learn about new products. Even if you decide that makeup isn’t for you, at least you have practiced a new skill and become more sure of who you are.^[4]
   
   • Remember to care for your skin especially well if you use makeup regularly. Always moisturize and take off all of your makeup at the end of the day.
5. Get a new hairstyle that you have always wanted to try. Maybe it’s bangs, balayage, or a bob? Take the plunge and get that cut or color you have always wanted! Look online for inspiration if you need it and print out pictures to take along with you to your hair appointment. Explain to your hairstylist the look you’re going for and listen to their advice about what cut and color would work best with your style.^[5]
   
   • A new hairstyle is an easy way to quickly change your appearance dramatically!

[Edit]Making Lifestyle Changes

1. Drink of water every day to stay hydrated. Glowing up happens from the inside out and water is the key to helping you look and feel your best every day. Buy a reusable drink bottle and keep it filled up with fresh water at all times. Carry it with you wherever you go to remind yourself to stay hydrated!^[6]
   
   • of water is just an approximate figure, as the ideal amount of water differs from person to person. Drink the amount of water that helps you to feel your best and visit a doctor or a dietitian if you have any concerns.
   • If you aren’t the biggest fan of plain water, you can always make infused water using your favorite produce to give it a bit more flavor. Try strawberries, cucumber, oranges, or mint!
   • Remembering to drink more water can be difficult when you first start. Try setting a reminder on your phone or putting a note on the fridge. Alternatively, you can also download smartphone apps that track your water intake and give you friendly reminders.
2. Brush your teeth regularly to help your smile look its best. A bright, happy smile is a massive part of the glow up transformation! Brush your teeth every morning and night, and remember to floss your teeth each day too. Visit a dentist once a year for an annual checkup to keep your teeth healthy and strong!^[7]
   
   • You can also use teeth-whitening products to help your smile dazzle.
3. Eat a well-balanced diet with plenty of fruit and vegetables. How you fuel your body can make a huge difference to your glow up. Each 5-9 servings of fruit and vegetables per day, and plenty of lean protein, whole-grains, and healthy fats. Remember that everything in moderation is the best way to go, so limit your intake of processed foods but treat yourself occasionally too.^[8]
   
   • Visit a doctor or a dietician if you have any concerns about your diet.
   • Avoid skipping meals or following fad diets, as these practices won’t help you to look and feel your best.
4. Exercise regularly to keep yourself healthy. Exercise helps you to look and feel your best, in both your body and mind! Find a type of exercise that you enjoy, such as swimming, running, or yoga. Aim to exercise 3-5 times per week, unless you have been instructed otherwise by a health professional. You can also exercise with friends if that makes it more fun!^[9]
   
   • You don’t have to join a gym unless you want to. There are plenty of ways to exercise in your own home.

[Edit]Becoming Confident and Setting Goals

1. Say positive affirmations every day to help build good self-esteem. A huge part of your glow up is learning to believe in yourself! Write down recurrent, negative thoughts and then write positive, logical affirmations as a counter-argument. Practice saying these positive affirmations aloud every day. Although it may feel difficult or silly at the beginning, with enough time and practice it should become easier to believe the positive affirmations.^[10]
   
   • Some popular positive affirmations include, “I deserve to be happy,”, “I am an intelligent and hard-working person,” and “I am capable of reaching my goals,”.
2. Surround yourself with positive people that support you. The attitude of the people who you are close to can influence you greatly. Seek family and friends that have a positive attitude and are supportive of who you are! You can also be positive and supportive to those around you, helping them glow too!^[11]
   
   • If you are having trouble finding positive and supportive people, try making a few new friends. Join a club or group with people that have similar interests, use social media, or simply reach out and talk to new people that you normally wouldn't. You have nothing to lose!
3. Use positive self-talk and practice being assertive to help your confidence grow. Glowing up is all about having the confidence to shine and to be your best self. Even if you don’t feel confident right away, simply fake it till you make it and nobody will be able to tell the difference! Use positive self-talk to bring yourself up instead of down, challenge negative thoughts about yourself, and practice being assertive in your day-to-day life. It can also help to surround yourself with confident people, as their confidence can rub off on you!^[12]
   
   • If you are having trouble with your confidence or self-esteem, talking to a mental health professional like a counselor or psychologist can really help.
4. Set achievable goals and challenge yourself to accomplish them. Maybe you have financial, career, or personal goals that you have been wanting to achieve? Sit down and write a list of your goals. Then break each goal up into smaller, actionable steps that you can get started on. Keep your goals realistic and celebrate your successes!^[13]
   
   • Remember that your goals can be as big or as little as you like. As long as you are realistic about how you will achieve them, that’s all that matters!

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• Remember that your glow up is about you and not anyone else. All that matters is that you are happy with who you are and if others happen to notice your transformation, then that's a great bonus!
• It’s not going to happen overnight. If you keep doing this, it’ll show in your attitude and your appearance.

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[Edit]Quick Summary

1. ↑ https://health.clevelandclinic.org/what-products-do-i-actually-need-for-a-simple-everyday-skin-care-routine/
2. ↑ https://health.clevelandclinic.org/health-effects-of-poor-posture/
3. ↑ https://www.scienceofpeople.com/fashion-psychology/
4. ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/the-truth-about-exercise-addiction/201606/the-surprising-psychology-behind-makeup
5. ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/fulfillment-any-age/201505/what-your-hair-really-says-about-you
6. ↑ https://health.clevelandclinic.org/23-foods-good-skin/
7. ↑ https://kidshealth.org/en/teens/teeth.html
8. ↑ https://www.helpguide.org/articles/healthy-eating/healthy-eating.htm
9. ↑ https://www.helpguide.org/articles/healthy-living/how-to-start-exercising-and-stick-to-it.htm
10. ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-wise-open-mind/201108/5-steps-make-affirmations-work-you
11. ↑ https://positivepsychology.com/positive-self-talk/
12. ↑ https://positivepsychology.com/assertiveness-training/
13. ↑ https://positivepsychology.com/goal-setting/